About The Scam Of Quiet Luxury
So, if you’ve been on Instagram, YouTube and (I hear) TikTok, you would have heard about ‘quiet luxury’ and how it’s something to aspire to. The trend was apparently triggered…
How To Go From “Loser” To Success
If you stumbled on this post about getting to success, I promise it’s not clickbait. You might be at a place in your life where you feel like a loser,…
3 Times You Really Shouldn’t Be Excited About Being Chosen
The concept of being chosen tends to bring up different emotions for a lot of people, for various reasons. For some, being chosen is something they are not ashamed to…
Why Storytelling Isn’t Working For Your Brand
The other day, I came across a post on LinkedIn in which the author said, “Telling prospective customers about the features and benefits of whatever you’re trying to sell, doesn’t…
Why Visibility Is Hurting Your Brand
You may have heard that the main/only reason things are not working for your brand is that you lack visibility. So, you’ve done everything the experts say you must do…
“Giving Value” Not Working For You?
If you’re on this page, it’s because despite what you’ve heard about how giving value is something you should do (especially if you’re trying to build an audience), it just…
The Three People You’ll Meet This Week
I don’t claim to be a prophetess, but if you want to know the three (types of) people you’ll meet this week, read on And if you got on this…
The Truth About Levelling Up
When Ciara sang about levelling up, many people took one look at her husband and assumed she was singing about him. Fair enough.Russell Wilson was an upgrade from her previous…
Why You Never Blow
In case you’re wondering, in Nigeria, the terms “blow”, “blowing”, “blown” are used in a particular context to mean “success”. Wild and unprecedented success. And depending on whom you’re talking…
Feeling The Sting Of Betrayal?
Just wanted to talk to those who are feeling the sting of betrayal, today… I am NOT saying you deserved the betrayal. But that it was for your good. Hear…
The Myth Of Safe Spaces
If you’re wondering why so-called safe spaces don’t seem to work for you, you probably need to read this. And if you’re confused about why anyone would posit that “safe…
Do You Need To Take A Break?
If you’re on here because you think you need to take a break, but you feel guilty about it – you’re welcome. There’s this weird, laughable yet unfortunate trend happening…
How To Win An Award
If you’re wondering how to win an award, you’re on the right page. And if you’re surprised that there might be a specific way to win an award, I feel…
Why You Should Stop Charging Your Worth
If you’ve heard about charging your worth or wondered how to start, you are on the right page. You might have been questions about how to gauge what your worth…
Keeping You Safe By Keeping Quiet
There are unions, babies, partnerships and dreams that can only be safeguarded properly by keeping quiet. I understand that we now live in an era where social media tells you…
Why You’re Really Hurt By Celebrity Divorces
Over the past however number of months, there’s been news of a number of celebrity divorces (as well as breakups for some who split before they got hitched) in Nigeria….
The Problem With Asking Questions
May YOU know the right question(s) to ask, as they might just save your business, your relationship or your life… In 2016, when I launched my company to provide certain…
The Truth About Becoming
Whenever someone in the public eye releases a book on becoming, there’s a lot of fanfare and it is virtually guaranteed to become a bestseller. In this context, becoming –…
The Truth About Following Your Passion
Chances are you’ve heard about following your passion. Some people swear they’re rich beyond their wildest dreams only because they found and followed theirs. Others, not so much. If you’ve…
How To Get Clients For Your Law Practice
If you’re currently wondering how to get clients for your law practice – whether you’re a solicitor, barrister, paralegal or something else – this is definitely the post for you….
How Self-Doubt Can Be Your Greatest Ally
If you struggle with self-doubt, you’re on the right blog post. And if you saw the title of this blog post and thought, “Wait! Self-doubt has robbed me of opportunities…
7 Reasons You Should Be Saying No
If you’re finding saying no, difficult – either because you’re not sure why you should or how to go about it – you’re reading the right blog post. Maybe saying…
Boris Johnson & The Curious Case of The Undone Moi-moi
So, if you’re wondering what Boris Johnson has to do with undone moi-moi, and why it should concern you – especially if you’re a woman in Law or Media –…
The Danger of Craving Acceptance
One of the ways I found and entered a new level of freedom is determining that I would NEVER again argue with a f**l, under the guise of vying for…
How To Build A Personal Brand Without Losing Yourself or Your Mind
If you’ve ever wondered how you can create a personal brand, that gets you taken seriously in your career or business, without losing yourself or your mind – you’re in…
About The Time I Nearly Got Cosmetic Surgery
Ever wondered if cosmetic surgery is the route for you? I grew up thinking (because I was told at least 3X a day) that I was ugly. Which is so…
Why You Shouldn’t Forgive And Forget
When I was growing up, I heard “You must forgive and forget, in order to prove that you are a good Christian” MANY times. Anyone who’s even marginally honest, knows…
Living For The Job, Dying For The Applause
Just how far will you go for applause? When Andre Leon Talley died, a lot of people communicated their shock at what they saw as Vogue’s (and Wintour’s) poor treatment….
The Truth About Getting A Blessing You Don’t Qualify For
The other day I come across an Instagram post saying how God will give you a blessing you don’t qualify for. And there were lots of people commenting “Amen”. What…
The Truth About Easy Success
The problem with easy success isn’t just that you expect it. And you might expect it after hearing things like “if you find something you love and do it for…
The Problem With Overnight Success
When you watch any of the plethora of reality TV shows in existence, it’s very tempting to believe in overnight success. But there’s a massive problem with overnight success; there’s…
The Ugly Truth About Waiting
Do you know delay and waiting for anything can look, feel, sound and taste like the same thing? Check out what you need to bear in mind.
Why Is It So Hard To Wait?
Have you ever gotten really annoyed when you hear or find out that you have to wait? Why do you think it was so hard to wait?
