The Myth Of Safe Spaces
If you’re wondering why so-called safe spaces don’t seem to work for you, you probably need to read this. And if you’re confused about why anyone would posit that “safe…
Do You Need To Take A Break?
If you’re on here because you think you need to take a break, but you feel guilty about it – you’re welcome. There’s this weird, laughable yet unfortunate trend happening…
How To Win An Award
If you’re wondering how to win an award, you’re on the right page. And if you’re surprised that there might be a specific way to win an award, I feel…
Why You Should Stop Charging Your Worth
If you’ve heard about charging your worth or wondered how to start, you are on the right page. You might have been questions about how to gauge what your worth…
Keeping You Safe By Keeping Quiet
There are unions, babies, partnerships and dreams that can only be safeguarded properly by keeping quiet. I understand that we now live in an era where social media tells you…
Why You’re Really Hurt By Celebrity Divorces
Over the past however number of months, there’s been news of a number of celebrity divorces (as well as breakups for some who split before they got hitched) in Nigeria….
The Problem With Asking Questions
May YOU know the right question(s) to ask, as they might just save your business, your relationship or your life… In 2016, when I launched my company to provide certain…
The Truth About Becoming
Whenever someone in the public eye releases a book on becoming, there’s a lot of fanfare and it is virtually guaranteed to become a bestseller. In this context, becoming –…
The Truth About Following Your Passion
Chances are you’ve heard about following your passion. Some people swear they’re rich beyond their wildest dreams only because they found and followed theirs. Others, not so much. If you’ve…
How To Get Clients For Your Law Practice
If you’re currently wondering how to get clients for your law practice – whether you’re a solicitor, barrister, paralegal or something else – this is definitely the post for you….
How Self-Doubt Can Be Your Greatest Ally
If you struggle with self-doubt, you’re on the right blog post. And if you saw the title of this blog post and thought, “Wait! Self-doubt has robbed me of opportunities…
7 Reasons You Should Be Saying No
If you’re finding saying no, difficult – either because you’re not sure why you should or how to go about it – you’re reading the right blog post. Maybe saying…
Boris Johnson & The Curious Case of The Undone Moi-moi
So, if you’re wondering what Boris Johnson has to do with undone moi-moi, and why it should concern you – especially if you’re a woman in Law or Media –…
The Danger of Craving Acceptance
One of the ways I found and entered a new level of freedom is determining that I would NEVER again argue with a f**l, under the guise of vying for…
How To Build A Personal Brand Without Losing Yourself or Your Mind
If you’ve ever wondered how you can create a personal brand, that gets you taken seriously in your career or business, without losing yourself or your mind – you’re in…
About The Time I Nearly Got Cosmetic Surgery
Ever wondered if cosmetic surgery is the route for you? I grew up thinking (because I was told at least 3X a day) that I was ugly. Which is so…
Why You Shouldn’t Forgive And Forget
When I was growing up, I heard “You must forgive and forget, in order to prove that you are a good Christian” MANY times. Anyone who’s even marginally honest, knows…
Living For The Job, Dying For The Applause
Just how far will you go for applause? When Andre Leon Talley died, a lot of people communicated their shock at what they saw as Vogue’s (and Wintour’s) poor treatment….
The Truth About Getting A Blessing You Don’t Qualify For
The other day I come across an Instagram post saying how God will give you a blessing you don’t qualify for. And there were lots of people commenting “Amen”. What…
The Truth About Easy Success
The problem with easy success isn’t just that you expect it. And you might expect it after hearing things like “if you find something you love and do it for…
The Problem With Overnight Success
When you watch any of the plethora of reality TV shows in existence, it’s very tempting to believe in overnight success. But there’s a massive problem with overnight success; there’s…
The Ugly Truth About Waiting
Do you know delay and waiting for anything can look, feel, sound and taste like the same thing? Check out what you need to bear in mind.
Why Is It So Hard To Wait?
Have you ever gotten really annoyed when you hear or find out that you have to wait? Why do you think it was so hard to wait?
