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    Quiet-luxury
    Lifestyle

    About The Scam Of Quiet Luxury

    So, if you’ve been on Instagram, YouTube and (I hear) TikTok, you would have heard about ‘quiet luxury’ and how it’s something to aspire to. The trend was apparently triggered by a scripted TV drama series, featuring super-wealthy people. After combing through the internet for a definition that’s actually written in simple English (as opposed […]

     
    Success
    Business Lifestyle

    How To Go From “Loser” To Success

    If you stumbled on this post about getting to success, I promise it’s not clickbait. You might be at a place in your life where you feel like a loser, like nothing’s working for you no matter how hard you try. In fact, you may have tried many things already, but you’ve been left frustrated […]

     
    Being-chosen
    Business Lifestyle

    3 Times You Really Shouldn’t Be Excited About Being Chosen

    The concept of being chosen tends to bring up different emotions for a lot of people, for various reasons. For some, being chosen is something they are not ashamed to say they want and will do anything to achieve. It proves to the world that they’re better than others in a category. Some others actively […]

     
    Giving-Value
    Business Lifestyle

    “Giving Value” Not Working For You?

    If you’re on this page, it’s because despite what you’ve heard about how giving value is something you should do (especially if you’re trying to build an audience), it just ain’t working for you. And if you read to the end of this blog post, you’ll see at least one of the three reasons listed […]

     
    People-Youll-Meet-This-Week
    Business Lifestyle

    The Three People You’ll Meet This Week

    I don’t claim to be a prophetess, but if you want to know the three (types of) people you’ll meet this week, read on And if you got on this blog post because you’re intrigued by the title, I promise this is not click bait. Because by the end of this blog post, you will […]

     
    Levelling-up
    Business Lifestyle

    The Truth About Levelling Up

    When Ciara sang about levelling up, many people took one look at her husband and assumed she was singing about him. Fair enough.Russell Wilson was an upgrade from her previous (publicised) attempt at romance. But what a lot of people don’t seem to realise when they talk about levelling up, is that the man was […]

     
    Blow
    Business Lifestyle

    Why You Never Blow

    In case you’re wondering, in Nigeria, the terms “blow”, “blowing”, “blown” are used in a particular context to mean “success”. Wild and unprecedented success. And depending on whom you’re talking to, it either happens overnight OR it just looks like it happened overnight. A lot of time, energy, songs and motivational speeches are dedicated to […]

     
    Betrayal
    Lifestyle

    Feeling The Sting Of Betrayal?

    Just wanted to talk to those who are feeling the sting of betrayal, today… I am NOT saying you deserved the betrayal. But that it was for your good. Hear me out… Some years ago, I felt something was wrong. I didn’t know what it was, but I couldn’t shake the feeling. One day, I […]

     
    Safe-space
    Lifestyle

    The Myth Of Safe Spaces

    If you’re wondering why so-called safe spaces don’t seem to work for you, you probably need to read this. And if you’re confused about why anyone would posit that “safe spaces” are a myth OR what safe spaces are, you’re welcome. By the time you get to the end of this post, you’ll know what […]

     
    Take-a-break
    Business Lifestyle

    Do You Need To Take A Break?

    If you’re on here because you think you need to take a break, but you feel guilty about it – you’re welcome. There’s this weird, laughable yet unfortunate trend happening with people who seem to have a warped understanding of what “consistency” is. I read about people trying to please an algorithm they cannot control […]

     
    How-To-Win-An-Award
    Business Lifestyle

    How To Win An Award

    If you’re wondering how to win an award, you’re on the right page. And if you’re surprised that there might be a specific way to win an award, I feel you. A while after I won an award for writing a novel, I started to get messages from people who specifically wanted to become award-winning […]

     
    Charging-Your-Worth
    Business Lifestyle

    Why You Should Stop Charging Your Worth

    If you’ve heard about charging your worth or wondered how to start, you are on the right page. You might have been questions about how to gauge what your worth is and how to get people to pay that. You might have tried, failed and wondered what the matter is with you or your method, […]

     
    Lifestyle

    Keeping You Safe By Keeping Quiet

    There are unions, babies, partnerships and dreams that can only be safeguarded properly by keeping quiet. I understand that we now live in an era where social media tells you “If you are not showing it off, it’s only cos you ain’t got it to show” OR “If you had it/it really happened, you would […]

     
    Celebrity-Divorces
    Lifestyle

    Why You’re Really Hurt By Celebrity Divorces

    Over the past however number of months, there’s been news of a number of celebrity divorces (as well as breakups for some who split before they got hitched) in Nigeria. And folk have gone wild. Predictably so; very boring. Saying weird things.Like “Ooooh, my role models have broken my heart”Or “I no longer believe in […]

     
    question
    Business Lifestyle

    The Problem With Asking Questions

    May YOU know the right question(s) to ask, as they might just save your business, your relationship or your life… In 2016, when I launched my company to provide certain services that I’d noticed a demand for, I ran into a bit of a snag. One of the things my company offers is publishing services […]

     
    Becoming
    Business Lifestyle

    The Truth About Becoming

    Whenever someone in the public eye releases a book on becoming, there’s a lot of fanfare and it is virtually guaranteed to become a bestseller. In this context, becoming – according to the Collins English Dictionary – means to grow to be. It’s intriguing to see/hear/read someone we find aspirational – for whatever reason – […]

     
    following-your-passion
    Business Lifestyle

    The Truth About Following Your Passion

    Chances are you’ve heard about following your passion. Some people swear they’re rich beyond their wildest dreams only because they found and followed theirs. Others, not so much. If you’ve ever wondered about following your passion, whether it’ll make you rich or happy, if there’s something you need to know because (even when you’re trying […]

     
    Self-doubt
    Business Lifestyle

    How Self-Doubt Can Be Your Greatest Ally

    If you struggle with self-doubt, you’re on the right blog post. And if you saw the title of this blog post and thought, “Wait! Self-doubt has robbed me of opportunities and ruined my life! How dare you call it my friend?” I promise you, it’s not click-bait. This is not going to be one of […]

     
    saying-no
    Business Lifestyle

    7 Reasons You Should Be Saying No

    If you’re finding saying no, difficult – either because you’re not sure why you should or how to go about it – you’re reading the right blog post. Maybe saying no makes you afraid, sad and confused. Perhaps you keep saying Yes, because you think people won’t like or understand you – if you say […]

     
    Boris-johnson
    Business Lifestyle

    Boris Johnson & The Curious Case of The Undone Moi-moi

    So, if you’re wondering what Boris Johnson has to do with undone moi-moi, and why it should concern you – especially if you’re a woman in Law or Media – read to the end. Now, unless you’ve been under a rock or you haven’t been on the internet, you know by now that Boris Johnson’s […]

     
    acceptance
    Business Lifestyle

    The Danger of Craving Acceptance

    One of the ways I found and entered a new level of freedom is determining that I would NEVER again argue with a f**l, under the guise of vying for their acceptance. One of the drawbacks of human nature is we want people to understand us cos there’s a thing in our brains that says […]

     
    Cosmetic-surgery
    Lifestyle

    About The Time I Nearly Got Cosmetic Surgery

    Ever wondered if cosmetic surgery is the route for you? I grew up thinking (because I was told at least 3X a day) that I was ugly. Which is so ridiculous for many reasons, including that it just wasn’t/isn’t true. But somewhere in my teenage years, I picked up an extra lie – that a […]

     
    forgive-and-forget
    Business Lifestyle

    Why You Shouldn’t Forgive And Forget

    When I was growing up, I heard “You must forgive and forget, in order to prove that you are a good Christian” MANY times. Anyone who’s even marginally honest, knows that being able to forgive and forget is not even remotely possible. Because unless you’ve got dementia or amnesia of some sort, you don’t forget. […]

     
    Applause
    Business Lifestyle

    Living For The Job, Dying For The Applause

    Just how far will you go for applause? When Andre Leon Talley died, a lot of people communicated their shock at what they saw as Vogue’s (and Wintour’s) poor treatment. I read the outraged tweets, shook my head and wrote this post. Talley was once the editor-at-large at Vogue, one of the most powerful men […]

     
    blessing-you-don't-qualify-for
    Business Lifestyle

    The Truth About Getting A Blessing You Don’t Qualify For

    The other day I come across an Instagram post saying how God will give you a blessing you don’t qualify for. And there were lots of people commenting “Amen”. What got my attention was that this dubious ‘prophecy’ about getting a blessing you don’t qualify for, was posted from the account of a job recruiter. […]

     
    easy-success
    Business Lifestyle

    The Truth About Easy Success

    The problem with easy success isn’t just that you expect it. And you might expect it after hearing things like “if you find something you love and do it for a living, you’ll never have to work a day in your life.” The problem is the hypocrisy you need to be walking in to feel […]

     
    overnight-success
    Business Lifestyle

    The Problem With Overnight Success

    When you watch any of the plethora of reality TV shows in existence, it’s very tempting to believe in overnight success. But there’s a massive problem with overnight success; there’s a lot that nobody tells you. And it’s not just with reality TV shows; it’s with business, entrepreneurship, careers, love, relationships and just life… Overnight […]

     
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