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    Success
    Business Lifestyle

    How To Go From “Loser” To Success

    If you stumbled on this post about getting to success, I promise it’s not clickbait. You might be at a place in your life where you feel like a loser, like nothing’s working for you no matter how hard you try. In fact, you may have tried many things already, but you’ve been left frustrated […]

     
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    Business Lifestyle

    3 Times You Really Shouldn’t Be Excited About Being Chosen

    The concept of being chosen tends to bring up different emotions for a lot of people, for various reasons. For some, being chosen is something they are not ashamed to say they want and will do anything to achieve. It proves to the world that they’re better than others in a category. Some others actively […]

     
    Giving-Value
    Business Lifestyle

    “Giving Value” Not Working For You?

    If you’re on this page, it’s because despite what you’ve heard about how giving value is something you should do (especially if you’re trying to build an audience), it just ain’t working for you. And if you read to the end of this blog post, you’ll see at least one of the three reasons listed […]

     
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    Business Lifestyle

    The Three People You’ll Meet This Week

    I don’t claim to be a prophetess, but if you want to know the three (types of) people you’ll meet this week, read on And if you got on this blog post because you’re intrigued by the title, I promise this is not click bait. Because by the end of this blog post, you will […]

     
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    Business Lifestyle

    The Truth About Levelling Up

    When Ciara sang about levelling up, many people took one look at her husband and assumed she was singing about him. Fair enough.Russell Wilson was an upgrade from her previous (publicised) attempt at romance. But what a lot of people don’t seem to realise when they talk about levelling up, is that the man was […]

     
    Blow
    Business Lifestyle

    Why You Never Blow

    In case you’re wondering, in Nigeria, the terms “blow”, “blowing”, “blown” are used in a particular context to mean “success”. Wild and unprecedented success. And depending on whom you’re talking to, it either happens overnight OR it just looks like it happened overnight. A lot of time, energy, songs and motivational speeches are dedicated to […]

     
    Safe-space
    Lifestyle

    The Myth Of Safe Spaces

    If you’re wondering why so-called safe spaces don’t seem to work for you, you probably need to read this. And if you’re confused about why anyone would posit that “safe spaces” are a myth OR what safe spaces are, you’re welcome. By the time you get to the end of this post, you’ll know what […]

     
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    Business Lifestyle

    How To Win An Award

    If you’re wondering how to win an award, you’re on the right page. And if you’re surprised that there might be a specific way to win an award, I feel you. A while after I won an award for writing a novel, I started to get messages from people who specifically wanted to become award-winning […]

     
    Lifestyle

    Keeping You Safe By Keeping Quiet

    There are unions, babies, partnerships and dreams that can only be safeguarded properly by keeping quiet. I understand that we now live in an era where social media tells you “If you are not showing it off, it’s only cos you ain’t got it to show” OR “If you had it/it really happened, you would […]

     
    Celebrity-Divorces
    Lifestyle

    Why You’re Really Hurt By Celebrity Divorces

    Over the past however number of months, there’s been news of a number of celebrity divorces (as well as breakups for some who split before they got hitched) in Nigeria. And folk have gone wild. Predictably so; very boring. Saying weird things.Like “Ooooh, my role models have broken my heart”Or “I no longer believe in […]

     
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    Business Lifestyle

    The Problem With Asking Questions

    May YOU know the right question(s) to ask, as they might just save your business, your relationship or your life… In 2016, when I launched my company to provide certain services that I’d noticed a demand for, I ran into a bit of a snag. One of the things my company offers is publishing services […]

     
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    Business Lifestyle

    Why You Shouldn’t Forgive And Forget

    When I was growing up, I heard “You must forgive and forget, in order to prove that you are a good Christian” MANY times. Anyone who’s even marginally honest, knows that being able to forgive and forget is not even remotely possible. Because unless you’ve got dementia or amnesia of some sort, you don’t forget. […]

     
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    Business Lifestyle

    Living For The Job, Dying For The Applause

    Just how far will you go for applause? When Andre Leon Talley died, a lot of people communicated their shock at what they saw as Vogue’s (and Wintour’s) poor treatment. I read the outraged tweets, shook my head and wrote this post. Talley was once the editor-at-large at Vogue, one of the most powerful men […]

     
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    Business Lifestyle

    The Truth About Getting A Blessing You Don’t Qualify For

    The other day I come across an Instagram post saying how God will give you a blessing you don’t qualify for. And there were lots of people commenting “Amen”. What got my attention was that this dubious ‘prophecy’ about getting a blessing you don’t qualify for, was posted from the account of a job recruiter. […]

     
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